Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Ice Breaking

There are a few answers that my heart has provided me and i hope he (Heart) will be happy to provide me with more and more answers in the coming days.

Anyone who has attended an interview would have answered the question 'Please introduce yourself' this is the world famous ice breaking question. The flow starts here and then moves into the details and specifications of the interview.

The first question that you have to ask yourself if you want to follow your heart is almost the same who are we at heart?. do our hearts realize what we are the ones who has got an unreal identity exactly as that of   Iron Man, without the metal armor he is nothing but Genius, billionaire, playboy, philanthropist.

Well my dear friends after a couple of years of looking into myself all i can say is that i left software development and decided to move to marketing because who i am at heart, liked to meet people, to have conversations, flexibility and abundant free time.

Following your heart start with  Ice breaking, asking your personality and character to introduce themselves.

There are a few of my friends who did this before me and they did it out of passion at a very early stage of life. The older you grow the harder it is for your heart, as casual as  it may sound the more deeper the roots would have grown.

For those who wonder WTH y its almost 2 years all i can offer is 'Desire for success should be greater than fear of failure.'

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Follow your heart, but be quiet for a while first. Ask questions, then feel the answer. Learn to trust your heart

Can u draw sounds? ' the best definition that i have ever come across for language. A man's deeds are not worth until they are passed on over the years as words, but how many of us have ever done a deed which is worth to be written in words.

All my life i tried to walk away from the daily chores, a bit nontraditional methodology of life, half way down the life i was left in vain by many of my own deeds and a lot more by the hands which lifted me and offered me help.

While Re-booting i realized the hardest fact of all times, if you want to be successful take ownership of your life, the final output of life is always dependent on your actions and attitude, whatever has come in between is simply because you tried to walk in some one else's shoes.

As a joke i used to tell my friends, am gonna be rich, if you want to be the same be with me. For a normal life it's your bank statement that matters or may be that is the only thing that matters. Until we are successful, rich; yes we are just someone among the crowd so am grounded to the reality that my net success is a big zero, OOPS! may be negative because of the minimum balance criteria involved with banking.

Let's cut the crap, people says follow you heart, they never says how; here i am trying to find out the way to follow my heart. The world as i know has come to an end, but the passion and hunger that am having is still there deep in my heart.

I have kept a check point for myself coming up in January 2012, yes following your heart means knowing what  to achieve with the only life that you are having, what is lost is irrecoverable and what we have left with is unknown, so lets take a call as long as i live i will do any thing that will help me follow my heart, so stay the course. Am i distracted,will my sound be drawn ? Though i may not be able to realize the same on every day, the reality will be exposed when the check point is reached.

In every story related to successful humans i realized one thing, they all had check points which was monitored, controlled and achieved with enthusiasm, fun and courage.

So if you want to Re-boot your life make sure of two rules,

  • Take Complete Ownership of your life 
  • Follow you heart, analyze with check points

Am more than ever determined to be successful, which includes following the hardest law of nature, till that time let me learn to trust my heart.

Friday, September 2, 2011

Power Failure

Hold the line, and stay with me, a line that i was very accustomed to even before i watched the movie Gladiator. Wherever i went, whatever i tried to do, there was always this sentence, there are people who walked before us and we were asked to follow just the same, yes at times we cried and at times we fought, the loss was always on our sides. 

When we tried to explore something new we were called either irresponsible or else disobedient. The frustration kept on taking a toll, until the teenage and then you fought against every authority which made rules, which stood with laws, you were determined to make an impact of yours, you were admired, loved and cared looked upon as something that created a difference.

I know many of my age has the same feelings, same reluctance, and were banished and abandoned by those whom we call our's as irresponsible or disobedient, some where brutally harassed by the older folk, some were beaten and bruised either by the parents or by the teaching community which consists of the self proclaimed universal law bearers.

By the age of 15 or 16 a boy takes his first step to have an identity of his, and alas many of us doesn't know what we are good at and what we should look forward and aim, so we finds the easiest things to do and many a times takes up any thing and everything to challenge the older folks.

Now after all this when we are about to take a step towards being considered as a man, we realize that many things done in the past were useless and more clearly unnecessary. The sudden realization that the line doesn't hold good for yourself is as shocking as the fact that people who used to call you irresponsible has already abandoned their betterment through your well being and hence forth their is nothing for you to hold on.

Yes the 'Power Failure' as i have described is going on in my life, am rebooting my system and am marking it so that some day some one may have peace of mind reading this. 

The words that i have marked to be back on the screen right after the welcome message is also edited from a book that has got a lot to do with following one's heart, a few lines that i will not forget because i would like the sentence ' Hold the line, and stay with me' to be replaced with 'When a person really desires something, all the universe conspires to help that person to realize his dream.', thanks to Paulo Coelho for writing these special lines and for my brother for giving me a copy of this stuff.

So here am hitting 'Crtl/Alt/Del', rebooting my system, many of my friends will write 'WTF' or 'GTH'.., so i will see u guys when i switches on.